Special Friday Edition: A Few Words In Honor Of Her Majesty The Queen
This has been a really tough 24 hours for so many of us.
I have never had the honor of meeting Her Majesty the Queen, or any member of the royal family, but I've spent most of my life incredibly invested in royal family history and traditions.
I feel like for many of us, the Queen's loss hit us hard. She was someone who was there our entire lives, and our parents' entire lives. She defined not just a generation or several generations, but an entire era. Most of the people alive right now cannot remember a time when she was not Queen. As the world changed around us, and presidents and prime ministers came and went, she’s been a constant for nearly a century. And that makes waking up this morning an entrance into a strange new world that will feel profoundly different in innumerable ways.
One of my good friends, Traci, actually lives in London, and went to Buckingham Palace this morning to leave a note and flowers in tribute to Her Majesty. She was kind enough to do so for me as well. Maybe sometime in the future, when this is all less raw for all of us, I'll share the note I left.
In the interim, God Save The Queen. She will be missed by the entire world.
On a personal note, I was blown away by how many texts and emails I got over the last day or so from friends and colleagues who said when they heard the news they immediately thought of me. I felt a little bad taking their condolences, as I did not personally know this person, but I feel like this is a loss that we all share. Just about everyone I know has been sharing tributes and remembrances of their own on their social media and sharing how the Queen has touched their own lives.
Perhaps my biggest brush with Her Majesty was in 2018, just a month or so before the royal wedding of the Duke and Duchess of Sussex. One of my dear friends, Nadine, and I were blessed enough to be on what we still consider one of our best press trips ever (if not THE best ever) - a nearly 2-week long royal-themed press trip of the UK. We visited all sorts of historical sites, but at one point, we visited Windsor Castle, and the flag was raised.
For those who are non-royal-followers, when The Royal Standard is flown, at royal residences, that is an indicator that the sovereign is present. So, we knew that the Queen was IN RESIDENCE at that very moment. We didn't directly cross paths with her, but at one point, we did see her walk past a window from well across the grounds (OK we were nowhere near her and in no way interacted but we DID see her and it was a big deal at the time.) - Nadine and I were texting for about 12 hours straight yesterday as the news developed. I knew, when all this was going down, just like all other pivotal royal moments, we just would uniquely get where each other was emotionally.
My good friend Jill though, who reached out yesterday from the epic Alaska trip she's currently on to check in (I have the most awesome friends, truly), told me a funny story that I wanted to share here: Jill told me that a few years ago, before we were really friends or really even were on each others' radar, she saw someone post on Facebook about some royal news that was making major waves at the time. She noticed that someone had commented on the post "Someone better check on Aly Walansky!" - Jill told me she wondered at the time...who is this Aly Walansky and why should people check on her? Is she part of their family? Is she the royal family's publicist? WHAT'S HER DEAL?
She was so curious, she dived a bit down the rabbit hole to find out more. She later found out, no, I was just a gal from Brooklyn who REALLY is into royal history and traditions. Lucky for me, it all made me intriguing enough that we're good friends now!
Thought that would be fun to share...and now onto today's news.
(And yes, in other news, I got my booster shot yesterday in between binging BBC all day and I'm hanging in there! Go get yours this weekend!)
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For this week, I’m rounding up The Healthiest Costco Frozen Dinners to Buy Right Now. This is similar to other pieces I’ve done like this for this outlet where I’m looking for RDs and nutritionists (credentialed, and unaffiliated with a brand), to discuss THEIR picks for frozen meals at Costco and why they are delicious, healthy, based on ingredients, nutritional profile, etc. Please email me asap if you have someone to comment, or if that someone is you!
I’m gearing up to do a series on holiday travel (yes, we’re almost there!) — and I’m looking for personal finance and travel experts (especially budget travel experts) to weigh in on the following:
How to budget for holiday travel: I mean the holidays are still a few months away, which gives people some time to plan ahead, so I’d experts to weigh in on how to budget ahead for holiday travel, so far as planning a holiday fund, planning a budget, considering ways to streamline expenses (maybe an all-inclusive?). It’s also about how to create a realistic budget for travel -- considering transportation, where you are staying, how long you will be there, how you will get around while you are there, where you'll be eating, what you'll be doing for fun/entertainment.
Related, I’m working on a story that will roundup mistakes to avoid that will blow your holiday travel budget -- so that may be booking too early or too late, not accounting for the extras when planning your budget (we all think about airfare and hotel, but what about gas/tolls/snacks/etc), not getting travel insurance (a MUST these days), not budgeting for food/entertainment, not paying attention to hidden charges, etc - would love experts to weigh in for this as well.
I’m working on something (non-travel related) on holiday spending. Statistically, women spend more on Christmas gifts than men, and I’d love some personal finance experts to weigh on why this is. (Especially if you can reference stats/data). Do moms feel pressure to buy more when they're busy at work? Are women more likely to go into debt after the holidays? And for women who do experience holiday spending stress (raises hand!), how do we prepare? My research actually says NOW is the perfect time to start to prepare for seasonal costs (which is why…well, this is being written now!). Would love experts to weigh in.
What is mulled cider? -- Pegged to National Mulled Cider Day. This is a piece for those who want to drink it all through the holidays out into the world. I'd like to chat with a chef or bartender or food historian about the history and get a recipe from either the chef or a food blogger. Would need to make sure there are photos with the recipe, too, if possible!
I’m rounding up freebies, deals, and discounts at food chains in honor of the following upcoming food holidays:
National Cheeseburger Day (9/18)
National Coffee Day (9/29)
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Lol ... really thought you were their publicist lol
Aly, I was heartbroken to hear of Her Majesty's passing and thought of you right away -- also a royal history fan... such a sad time for so many. She leaves an amazing legacy 💜